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Coping with your emotions about coronavirus

This page is about coping with the emotional impact of the coronavirus pandemic.

Last updated: 13 October 2020

If you are living with blood cancer, there could be many things affecting your mental health right now, from the ongoing worry of coronavirus and being vulnerable, to the increasing numbers of cases, and possibly the behaviour of other people around you. You might feel anxious about going outside, or even a bit left behind. You're not alone. Whatever your situation, we are here for you, and there are things that can help.

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Coping with difficult feelings

Last updated: 13 October 2020

You may be feeling anxious, stressed or even fearful right now. You may be feeling angry, upset, or alone.

Whatever you are feeling is valid. As someone living with blood cancer, you have probably been through a lot this year, emotionally and practically.

It's important to look after yourself. Finding ways to manage difficult feelings is part of this, and could help you in the future.

Here are some things that might help:

  • If you’re worrying about the future, try some of our guided relaxation and mindfulness exercises. They can help you focus on the present. Mindfulness has also been shown to reduce anxiety and stress levels.
  • Getting creative can also take you out of your head and into the moment. Our information about looking after your mind and emotions lists some activities you could try.
  • Make time to understand your level of risk – this can help you make decisions about how to protect yourself. Ask your healthcare team if there’s anything you’re unsure about.
  • If you’re worried about returning to work or managing financially, we have information about money and work that can help you access support.
  • Share your worries with your family or friends – talking to people you trust can help.
  • Going outside for some fresh air or to be with nature can be calming and refreshing.
  • You could also talk to other people with blood cancer in our online forum coronavirus thread, or speak to us.
  • If you’re feeling anxious, take a look at these 10 ways to cope with anxiety.
  • Look at Mind’s information on managing feelings about lockdown easing.
  • Read the Mental Health Foundation's information about looking after your mental health as we come out of lockdown.
  • If these feelings don’t go away, speak to your healthcare team or GP. They can help you access telephone or online counselling.

Coping with feeling vulnerable

Last updated: 13 October 2020

Being told that you’re ‘clinically extremely vulnerable’ can be difficult to process. It might trigger memories of diagnosis or make you feel like things are beyond your control. If you start to feel this way, here are some things that can help:

  • Look at our pages on living well with or after blood cancer for ideas on how to maintain your physical and mental health. Taking small, simple steps to improve your health can feel empowering.
  • Make time to understand your level of risk. Having this knowledge might help you feel more in control.
  • If you have concerns about the impact of coronavirus on your health, tell your healthcare team. If you can’t talk to them straight away, write down your questions and take them to your next check-up or telephone appointment.
  • Visit the NHS pages on Every Mind Matters. They include expert advice and practical tips to help you look after your mental health.
  • Look at Mind's information on coronavirus and your wellbeing.
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Looking after yourself if you’re staying at home

Last updated: 13 October 2020

If you are still staying at home, or continuing to keep your distance from others, here are some things you can do to help yourself:

Coping with isolation

  • If you’re feeling lonely or isolated, talk to other people with blood cancer using our online forum or speak to us.
  • Stay in touch with family and friends by phone, online or by post. You could explain why you’re keeping your distance and tell them that you want to stay in touch.
  • Plan things to look forward to – it could be as simple as a video call with someone you haven’t seen for a while, having a film night, or doing an online exercise class at the same time as a friend.

Finding a routine

  • Try creating a timetable for yourself – having a routine can help.
  • Start a diary – you can record your goals, things you've achieved, things that have helped you, and how you're feeling. Order your diary and see if it helps.
  • Try to maintain a regular sleeping pattern – getting the right amount of sleep can have a big impact on how you feel.
  • If you struggle to get to sleep, meditation can help. Try listening to these guided relaxation and mindfulness exercises.

Looking after your physical and mental health

  • Spend time doing things you enjoy like reading or cooking – or you could learn something new.
  • Keep active – try some of our guided exercise videos you can follow at home, or visit the NHS website.
  • Eat healthy, well-balanced meals and drink enough water – see our information on eating well.
  • Try some of our guided relaxation and mindfulness exercises. They can help you relax and reduce your stress levels.
  • Open your windows for fresh air and get some natural sunlight.
  • If you don’t have a garden or outside space, try bringing nature into your home with some house plants or potted herbs.
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Tell us about your experience

You can help improve support for people with blood cancer by completing our impact of coronavirus survey. The results will help us understand the impact on people with blood cancer and help us support clinicians and the NHS.

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Support for you

Call our free and confidential helpline on 0808 2080 888 from Monday to Friday, 10am to 7pm, and Saturday to Sunday, 10am to 1pm.

We are currently receiving a very high volume of calls related to coronavirus, so if you're not able to get through straight away, please leave a message and we'll get back to you as soon as we can.

You can also email us if you prefer to get in contact that way. We'll usually get back to you within two working days, but due to the current rate of calls and emails we are currently receiving it may take us longer.

Talk to other people with blood cancer on our Online Community Forum – there is a group for coronavirus questions and support.

You can also find out what's helping other people affected by blood cancer through coronavirus and beyond in our pages on living well with or after blood cancer.

The following companies have provided funding for our coronavirus support, but have had no further input: AbbVie, AstraZeneca, Celgene, Gilead, Incyte, Kyowa Kirin, Novartis, Pfizer, Sanofi, Takeda.

We're here for you if you want to talk

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